Break ups, separations, divorce, can be very painful and excruciating. We’ve all heard stories from different people. hell, even seen TV shows and movies that depict the goings on during the deterioration of relationships. You never think about what it would be like if it happened to you. I know I never did.
One of the things that happens when our hearts are broken, or we feel betrayed is we right away become the victim. Right away we put ourselves in this little box and we think our world is going to end, wondering why it’s happening to you. You also tell yourself that you won’t be able to move on. Lies I tell you, all lies.
I’m sure most, if not all people got the “you’re going to be okay” or “things will work out”, among a ton of other tidbits of advice. And you know what? It’s true. You will be okay. Everything will workout. How do I know this? Well one reason why is because I realized that I am not the only one to have gone through this. And a TON of people have gone through this. You, or I, are not the only ones and I’m sure we won’t be the last.
Sure, you have to go through your “grieving” or “mourning” phase. But know that you, like hundred and thousands of millions of others, were, or are in the same position that we are in now.. You can get through this. I can get through this. We need to rise up and realize that the life waiting for us is much more better than this.
“Life is a series of experiences, each one of which makes us bigger, even though sometimes it is hard to realize this. For the world was built to develop character, and we must learn that the setbacks and grieves which we endure help us in our marching onward”. – Henry Ford
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